You really need Jesus and a prayer. Seriously.
Wow.
Bat. Shit. Crazy. Obsession.
Seriously, wow. Simply WOW.
And then to bring others into the obsession...
I'll take Sociopath behavior FOR THE WIN!
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but but I love you! and I want everyone else to love you.. can you really fault me for this :P
Better than a nonstop, peeing chihuahua humping your leg and barking in tune with Back Street Boys.
:P
haha Bella, but I don't see you trying to cook me and then sharing me as a tasty bbq treat in order for others to 'see' how much they could love me too.
I dunno, I would rather have the dog. At least they know when to go away. LMAO
mmmkay mental note to self.. in order to show true love and devotion to Moonie you must cook her n eat her and share so she stays with us FOREVER!!!
Unfortunately, eating her will not make her stay with us forever, as at some point, you will have to take a shit.
I think that there must be another way to keep her here with us...
OOOOoooo I got it! Taxidermy! :D
I've been worried lately. Well, for over the past month. My dad started to become sick towards the beginning of this month. He thought it was an ear infection. About a week after it not getting better he went to the Dr. They told him that he had a bad virus that was causing his ear to be inflamed and a sack was then restricting his throat. He was coughing horribly and could barely eat anything other than jello, pudding, soup or things along that consistency. He couldn't talk at all.
He was getting dizzy to the point of where if he stood up I thought he was going to fall over. He couldn't drive or barely walk around. I was worried he'd get up and fall. He wasn't getting better and went back out to the Dr. After that trip he started to have palsy on the right side of his face. That made me even more worried. I had thought it was a side effect of the medication he took, but come to find out after another visit to the Dr. it wasn't. So they decided to send him to a specialist today.
Even though the palsy wasn't permanent they said that it is affected his vocal cord on that side. Its not functioning. So they have set him up with an MRI. They said that it could come back or it may not.
Its a lot easier to put on a brave face for everyone around when no one knows whats going on. The only person I told was Ducky and that is because she made me. When you being to tell people it makes it more real. So I tend to close things off to keep that 'brave face' for those who need it, or myself.
While this is still not 'good'... I am just glad that it was not close to my deepest fears. I don't like to think the worst, but there are times when it just happens. I am glad that it wasn't something horrible. I really don't know if I could have taken it if it was.
I still remember the night I watched my mom pass. It was a traumatizing experience because of the way it happened. It will never leave me. Its etched in my mind forever. No matter how many good times that took/ or will take place that memory will never leave me.
Then with a few years later learning that my dad was in a very bad accident, it was like reliving the moment of fear. I seriously thought he was dead. It was a miracle that he wasn't. I remember thinking 'Oh please not both of them gone'.
I had that same fear this time. 'Oh please not something horrible'.. I don't think I could handle All of these things within this short of time. Its amazing how the human mind works. It brings up those times you want to forget, or need to forget. It feels almost like being stuck in a room with nothing but an old movie camera and a film reel and someone is just making those moments pop up with the flick of a swtich. These are things you can't just get over. These are things that don't just go away no matter how much you want them to.
Even though it wasn't anything horrible... I still feel.. troubled. I don't like this feeling.
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It is hard. It's hard to look these things full in the face. I've been there. I still feel paralyzed by fear from time to time. I hope things get better and I'm here if you want to talk or rant.
&hearts you are a wonderful friend. I adore you, thank you. :)
Gives ya a hug. I know it may not be much. but it is a hug.
I know it isnt easy.All we can do is cherish every second we have with them and face what ever it is we have to face as best can.
Im glad it wasnt something horrible and that he is on the mend.
Good thoughts coming your way,for you and your dad...
Be strong sis- and keep thinking positive. Losing one parent, the other in danger or bad health... never fun.
*hugs* You need to talk, just send me a message bunny.
-mew- Hang in there and know that you have people surrounding you if you need to talk.
You know I'm around.
Just remember- I'll call if you don't.
Remember, I'm your favorite online bartender. And listening is what I do
I now know why I've stayed away from 'support' groups. They are so fucking depressing. Seriously. I just came across a post where someone is thinking about making her suicide look like an accident.
Whaaat?
I don't know. There is a lot of information, but holy hell, you have to venture through the depressive stuff. I know with having this there are going to be some bad days, but wow. I very rarely see anything like "Hey I feel good today! blah blah'. O.o
We all know you can view journals, profiles and 99% of VR offline. I have to say that if I was one of these people who came to the site and was looking around to see if I wanted to join, I'd run like hell after reading some of the journals around here. Even more so if I was a person in an alternative lifestyle. (i.e. F2M, M2F, Post-op, pre-op, secret-op or just lived my life as a different gender.)
I very rarely read journals in general. Some I have read offline, mostly I just don't bother. I do often look at the journals page and see the beginning of a person's journal. I've seen the word 'transvestite' and 'he-she' thrown around like its some kind of insult. I'm pretty appalled by it actually. I had a relationship with an F2M. I had wonder friends who were drag queens, transsexual, transgender and even transvestites. So to use it as an insult.... just wow.
And before people start coming in here let me say this:
I don't give a rat's ass ( or VW's ass if you will) what he said, she said crap. I don't care the reasons(The hows, the why's and all that zippity doo dah shit) . I simply just DO NOT care. And don't feed me that line of 'it's just because of them, if it was someone else it would be different'.
-Buzz- Wrong. That is a total cop-out.
What ever happened to just saying "hey you're an asshole. You have zero personality and your mom dressed you in a burlap sack till you were 6.'
Seriously. Just... seriously.
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Amen to that!
It is an inappropriate insult that shows how little class the person trying to use it has. There is nothing insulting or wrong about being a transvestite. It doesn't lower you. People are people.
Whoever is saying that needs to realize what trash it makes them. E-freaking-volve.
People are dumb and insensitive. Just as people still say "gay" in a bashing way, so too do people have a very narrow view of gender identity. Most people don't really fit into the binary dichotomy because guys cry and girls do more than just pillow fight. It is also quite possible that the person who is the epitimy of masculine but be biological a female. Genitalia doesn't dictate where we fall in the spectrum of masculine/feminine, and until someone has intimate dealing or knows someone who falls into that identity... well they probably don't understand how hateful those ignorant remarks are.
oh how i miss your mouth moonie ;)
True words as always :)
It just really chapped my ass. And NO not because I have my penis tucked. Goodness knows if I don't make that clear I could possibly be the next insult train.
It IS so dumb. A few years ago, on another site I use to frequent regularly, there was a lot of hoopla over a M2F member. She was so cool. Most of the members were in her corner, but there were a few 'high and mighty' ones who ended up driving her away; they just could not get around the fact that the pretty articulate woman use to be a man. (I think one of the guys got all pissed when she rejected his advances).
I like to think - hope - that there are more enlightened people than there are dumb asses.
yeah, in fact I hate offensive expressions like :'' that's so gay.''
Absolutely Moonie...being a hermaphrodite shouldn't be a sin either...I'm just a person for crying out loud*stomps foot*
Today is one of those days where I could punch you in the face a few times and then wrap my hands around your neck and squeeze. Then giggle at the fact your face is turning blue.
So, yes, I would say I am a lil angry today.
However, this did make me laugh at myself.
I am on the outskirts of Flint. I am far enough away that I don't have to worry about gun fire or the possibility of finding a dead hooker on my lawn. (Seriously, Flint is getting that bad)
I have a feeling those people in the CES group are going 'great, we've got a crazy one.' hah.
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And you were afraid you wouldn't have anything to start a conversation with...lol
ahh hahah
No one has said anything after that email.
Perhaps they are all trying to see if they can get me in a lovely padded cell with a matching straightjacket?
Where I live, there is still the possibility of gunfire AND a dead hooker on the lawn.
I think I already found my nitch in the CES group. I am going to be the one that can turn a horrible situation into something comedic.
For example:
I used to make my heels match my clothes. Now I wish my walker had interchangeable color cases so I could really dress to impress. hah.
I have yet to discuss how I'm going to start using my scar as a party-ice-breaker and my new come on line of "You are sexy. I wonder how your penis would feel rubbing against my 14 inch scar".
Okay... maybe those two things I'll wait a few days for. I don't want to traumatize them just yet.
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Wait wait... Tell them you know how long your scar is and you want to see if they measure up.
Awwww yeah.
ahh haha YES!!!!!
You people are evil...lol
"My scar is 14 inches... you got anything that long?" ;)
Yes- she is evil.
Oh I've dropped a few bombs on them already:
I've also decided that my scar is pretty damn sexy.
If I ever get the chance I am going to do two things:
1. Lift up the back of my shirt and sing "I'm bringing sexy back".
2. Use it for a pickup line "You're pretty cute, wanna touch my scar?" *throw in cute wink after line delivery*
The possibilities are endless! :)
ahh hahahaha
They'll probably kick me out. LMAO
Okay so Morrigon released me a few stock pics because I promised her I would NOT make them suck. LOL
This is one edited so far:
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I don't know what to say, a part is like "ooo pretty" but wait, it isn't supposed to be... and well it creates a wonderful conflict.
I love the look here and it just screams at me of the single woman's decision to become an old maid :)
While I love the bride- the hand smooth while the face is cracked..creepy, I also love the roses, the frame, the spider webs. Cool edit. :D
hah That's gunna be me hanging above someone's mantle. And when someone walks in the room they can say," We didn't know her, but damn she looked good in a wedding dress alone" hah.
I had NIGHTMARES of spiders last night. It was horrible.
All because I was ALL ABOUT putting that damn spider in the web. -twitch-
I looooove the web.
wow
Wow...breathless absolutely...damn gurl is there anything you're NOT good at?LOL
I have never been a member of a support group. I just never have felt comfortable with being the one that needed support. When things are wrong, I deal with them. I figure them out in my mind and see what am *I* going to do. It can cause me to retreat into my own mind for a bit, until I get things figured out, but in the end I do. I do not like to lean on people. I feel like it is my burden and I do not want to trouble someone else with my problems, specially when their problems could be/probably are bigger than mine.
There are only a couple people that I confide in when I absolutely need to. I am an only child, so I am used to figuring things out myself. The times I have learned on people, I've been down right screwed over. So I've learned that to be extremely selective is important.
This brings me to my reasons of uncomfort right now-
Because my diagnosis is something that is very rare, there are not a lot of people who have my condiition. I have Cauda equina syndrome. While some people understand, and possibly even have the same symtpoms, they don't fully understand the problems that come along with it. It is especially hard when you are living half way in the world of being 'normal' and being 'disabled'.
Oh My God.. Yes! In case you didn't know.. I am disabled, handicapped, cripple, etc.. etc.. etc. It is not something I really broadcast because I do not want to be coddled, babied, or felt sorry for. Not my thing so I tend to keep my mouth shut about it.
I 'see' a lot of people in this 'support group' that I've joined and I've realized that I am doing very damn well for what happened to me. Some of these people have life long problems that they will never be able to fix.
Seeing the stories of some of these people have been bittersweet. I kind of feel like I should just tuck my tail between my legs and do what I've kept on doing; dealing with it the way I can and handling it alone. Some people within the group really need the support. I can tell because I was there at one time myself. You become insecure because life has changed so drastically. I believe what helped me, and is helping me right now, are the people who I surround myself with. Even though the occasional 'bad seed' gets in and I begin to question things, I realize that I've come pretty damn far because people who care about me refuse to see me as 'a handicapped' person.
I think I am going to 'try' to talk with some people who have CES. Not for support, just to see how they handle it and things that they find helps their situation.
This is all new for me. I've had it for a few years, but I just found the group.
I guess we'll see how this goes.
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One day at a time, who knows what it will bring. Sometimes it's just nice to know that you're not alone, even if that's all you choose to do.
And just by reaching out to others in the group for their feedback, you all will be helping each other, really.
I really need to go through and upload a lot of stuff to my DeviantArt account. Its like I just make stuff and then don't put it up. I was looking and I was like 'I know I've made more stuff besides just this here!'
Perhaps I'll start to go through that tomorrow and do it.
Morri did release me a few pictures to use for Stock. hehe I maaaaaaaaaaaaaade somethin' with a couple of them. Tee hee.
HAHAHAHHA
Deity: lol @ relations
Deity: your vagina is a portal
Deity: STRAIGHT TO CRAZY TOWN'
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That was so awesomely epic. :)
O.O
LOL
When I wanted to comment I got an error, it seems my profile got scared of the vagina.
Okay this is the full version of my avatar.
And I kinda wanna smack that lady for being dumb and keeping on shoving the bunnies back on the cat... but its cute even if the tubby cat does try and eat them.
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I can't stop watching your avatar today. It's so damn cute!
What I do like about how she "corrects" the kitty is a gentle tap, and not the screaming/hitting some people would do. Really if you have baby bunnies around cats, this is a great way to get the bunnies to not fear the cat and to teach the cat not to attack the bunnies.
lol that's cute, but what did she expect when she kept putting them up in the cats face like that.
bunnies... taste... good....
I know---she gives the cat the bunnies, then scolds him for wanting to nibble on 'em...dumb bitch.
Never. Again.
I will NEVER do that again.
I had wrote these some place else, but fuck it. Really it doesn't matter who sees them and flips them to what they want them to be about.
So I'm just shoving all three here:
I miss certain things, however it seems as though they are lost forever. I mourn for the loss, but I know it will not resurrect anything. I truly believe the once-was has passed on. No matter how hard it is looked for, it will never be found. So all I can do is bow my head in silence, say a farewell and wish for the best.
Mood: bereaved
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Wander June 10, 2012, 11:59:pm
I don't like where my mind has been wandering. It hasn't wandered down this path in quite awhile. Yet at this moment if feels the need to dig deep within and pull out things I just have no desire to remember or feel. I cannot stand when the past turns haunting. I crave the silence, but with silence comes the ability for my mind to wander even farther into a place and pull out even more things that are better left buried.
There is too much. Just too much in my mind at the moment. I feel as though the words and emotions are bubbling up inside waiting for the right moment to just release into a volcanic spew of words and anger. Wow, its been so long since I've bottled up emotions I forgot what it felt like.
It feels.. familiar. It feels....safe. It feels.... like an old friend.
: perplexed
Eh. June 09, 2012, 04:59:pm
There are times when I sit back and feel so ignorant, stupid and befuddled. I sit here and wonder what was wrong with me at that point in time to do what I did? Why did I intently focus on one aspect of something and not see the whole vision clearly? I realize that some things will effect me greater than others, but in the end they still alter that path that we walk on.
There are times I just want to go 'another stupid lessons learned' and move on to something new, but then brooding and pondering is something I've always done about past mistakes that wander up to the forefront of my mind. In the end I learn even though at the time I feel as though I could care not at all about it. Emotions take their course and being stubborn doesn't allow the full 'sinking in' of the realization.
In the end everything happens for reasons that we won't realize until it hits us like an epiphany and we wonder why we didn't realize it all along. And then that is the time where I feel stupid beyond measures. This being one of the times and I hate it. The sad thing is I knew it was stupid and I brushed it away, only to have it fall down upon me with a vengeance.
I wish I could say never again, however I know that is not the case.
For some reason the old quote "Stupid is as stupid does" keeps replaying over and over in my mind.
Perhaps its because it describes how I feel very well.
I keep venturing on...
Mood: Cogitative
Purging Thoughts June 07, 2012, 08:35:pm
The purpose of learning is growth, and our minds, unlike our bodies, can continue growing as we continue to live. ~Mortimer Adler
I believe that as time passes we learn lessons in our life that allow us to continue to grow and evolve as people. Up until the moments when we take our last breathe we are learning something new, even if its just a different way of seeing a situation.
The one thing I never want to be is so closed minded that I cannot stand back and see some of the lessons life has to offer me. I've never felt that life is just black and white. In each persons life there are many different shades of gray in the spectrum. And with each shade of gray that person has learned something new and grown from it. There are even times when those around them have learned as well.
While there are things that I am closed minded about, I never want to be so closed minded that I stop myself from growing mentally and spiritually.
With saying that, and feeling as though I am learning even now as I write this, I feel as though I have become disconnected with myself spiritually. I don't feel the 'harmony' that I once felt with the spiritual side of me. I need to get myself back on track with my beliefs. I need to expunge the distance I've created. I need to refocus, regain and reinvent that part of me.
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meeper
12:27 Jun 30 2012
How did you know?
MooniePie
19:49 Jun 30 2012
Because things are said to you like 'you lick me'. >:]